A Story of Choice and Community After Loss

When things seem so out of control, what do we do?  This is the question that everyone who experiences loss must face, and as Judy Pedersen found while leading a grief support group, the first step can come from the most unexpected places. One young mom came in who had recently lost her husband. They […]

Coping With Loss By Focusing On What You Can Control

When something painful happens that is outside our control, like the death of a loved one, a terrible accident, or a global pandemic, we often start to rethink our understanding of the world and how we function in it. If we live in such an unpredictable and often unfair place, how can we control what […]

The 3 C’s of Coping With Holiday Grief

Holidays and special celebrations—whether the kind that leave stores decorated for months, the ones that your family finds special significance in, or personal celebrations like birthdays and anniversaries—can be one of the most unpredictable and difficult times of the year for grievers. Here are some tips for coping with holiday grief, including Kenneth Doka’s “3 […]

Five Tips to Navigate Different Feelings After the Same Loss

When thirteen-year-old Santiago Abut unexpectedly passed away, his heartbroken family found themselves navigating the different ways they each coped. His sister, Caroline, was only five when Santi died. She had dozens of questions and needed information. Santi’s father channeled his emotions into finding grief support resources for his daughters.  Every family who loses someone they […]

A Hearts of Hope Valentine

Since 2017, The Santiago Abut Foundation has generously supported Hearts of Hope’s mission through grants that bring healing art programs to children in underprivileged communities that would otherwise not be able to take part in our painting events. Thanks to the grant: 6,216 ceramic hearts have been created, painted, and gifted to those in need […]

Spreading Love After Loss–The Abut Family Story

Asking for Help After Unimaginable Loss Caroline Abut was five years old when, one day in March, she was ushered out of the bedroom she shared with her older brother Santi by a series of medical professionals and police. As she waited at her neighbor’s house for news of what was going on, all she […]

Make a difference this Giving Tuesday: Hope for Uvalde

Today is the last day of our Hope for Uvalde Campaign. We are bringing healing and hope to the Uvalde community following the Robb Elementary School shooting. And we can’t do it without you. As we end our campaign, we want to express our gratitude to the volunteers across the country who have painted hearts […]